Rejected To A Comeback!

"Rejections and adversity can upgrade your life because they push you, challenge you and make you rise to another level."

Rejections are hurtful, not because someone didn't like your work but because somewhere a part of you was involved, was invested in doing that task. There is no doubt that it is a painful experience, but here's one thing you need to keep in mind, learning is an arduous journey in which you lose and gain. You lose a part of yourself when you realize that you are not as good as you could be, so you let that part of you die. But here you gain experience! An experience that won't let another part of you lead to death. 

Hello! my lovely readers. Thanks a lot for all love and support you gave to my last blog by sharing and writing your worthy, adoring comments below. Today, here I come with another blog. The subject I chose today is a well-known and familiar word, i.e., REJECTIONS. 

Rejections are the most common emotional wound that we all sustain in daily lives. In today's digital era, thanks to social media platforms, each one of us is connected to several thousands of people. If any of our posts, texts, content, profiles or chats might get ignored, it leaves us in a weird feeling or what we usually term as,'separation anxiety'. This 'separation anxiety' is also a feeling of rejection. 

The greatest damage rejection causes is usually self-inflicted. Just when our self-esteem is hurting most, we go and damage it even further.

Our brains don't easily tell the difference between rejections that matters and those don't unless we consciously think about it and override our obvious reaction to it.

               Life is not just the passing of time. Life is not just watching the clock tick away. Life is a collection of experiences, their frequency, and their intensity.

Whatever, the span of our life turns out to be, we'll always fill it up with our experiences. Rejection is also an experience, an experience that enhances our joyous moments. 

When we walk on a path to get success in our lives, we may be interrupted by these rejections. Here, the direction we are going, we need to make a decision. A decision to keep moving without caring of the hurdles, or turn back. An average person, unfortunately turns back without even realizing their reason of rejection. Therefore, as very first step, we need to be strong enough so that rejections may not take away impulse for our aim.

Look at rejections as a stepping stone because when you do, you realize that those difficult situations highlight your habits, actions and thought that you can improve on

 

So, when you get a rejection, retain yourself for a moment, realize the reason of your rejection and then, restart with your practicing and have a remarkable comeback.  

With this as a concluding line, I end my blog here. Thanks a lot, my dear readers, for all love and support you give me and my blogs. Kindly keep sharing your lovely comments and thoughts or any story of your rejection that will inspire us.

Stay Safe, Stay Healthy, Stay Happy!!!!!

                                                      ~Ridhima kaul